The guide to dating a HIGH MAINTENENCE FEMALE
By: Miss FranQueen
"I am feisty, impatient, I make mistakes and I am cranky when I don't sleep. I am out of control and at times hard to handle. If you can't handle me at my worst than you probably don't deserve me at my best."
-Marilyn Monroe
We see them everywhere, Shinning in MAC makeup, dressed to the nines and tottering in sky high stilettos; arriving to thier mani/pedi/hair appointment in over sized sunglasses clutching a Starbucks cup. Flirting with anyone and everyone and loving the attention they receive. The women that most guys love and are often intimidated by...those HIGH MAINTENENCE FEMALES. The ones who spend money weekly and monthly to keep the nails immaculate, the highlights bright, and the eyebrows waxed to perfection.
Although it can be very fun and beneficial to date one of these women, it is often frustrating and quite challenging! Being a HMF myself, I put together a little guide to help those who are thinking of dating, are involved with, or just flat out LOVE those HMF's. Here is a brief run down on how to succeed and win the heart of a HMF.
Attention is the most important key in making us happy. She LOVES attention, we thrive off it. Show her attention by flirting to get her really going. There is nothing she love more than a compliment, or two, or five! HMF's also love sweet text messages for no reason at all, a phone call so she knows you were thinking of her, gifts both inexpensive and pricey, invitations to dinner or work events; she loves to be shown off! She just wants to be the belle of the ball, the center of attention and wants you to make her feel like the only person in that room. She loves attention in any and all ways so try to be creative and think of ways to get that million dollar smile shining.
Reassurance is also key in making her feel loved. Let her know that she is the queen of your heart and there is nobody who could ever take her place. She wants to know that she is one of a kind!
There are times when she can seem picky and its because she is. Know her likes and dislikes! Don't buy her a perfume if you don't know what her scent is. Even if it is something classy like Chanel no.5 ...she may be a VERSACE Bright Crystal kind of girl. NEVER buy her clothing unless she has already picked it out and told you the color and size. If you can't get the specific products she uses do not buy anything, no matter how similar it is! Also, know her favorite flowers and never give her the same kind twice in a row.
Be creative when taking her on dates and always do your research! If she prefers the outdoors, then take her on that picnic in the park. If she loves the beach then plan that romantic dinner at sunset followed by a midnight dance in the sand. Find out her favorite foods, activities, and favorite places. Never assume! When she isn't happy she won’t be afraid to tell you.
She has a mind of her own and has a strong opinion about almost everything. Asking for her input on any subject matter will please her. HMF are stylish, creative, intelligent and often have great ideas. They are determined, somewhat independent, and strong willed, and driven. After all, they always get what they want when they want it and how they want it!
Being with a HMF has its rewards. They will always look and smell good for you. Make you feel like a king. Spoil you with attention and compliments and make you feel like a real man in the bedroom. They are fun, great company and their laughter is heaven. Keep them happy and content and your love life will soar. It's not easy to date a HMF, but when done the right way it sure is FUN!
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